The Too-Good Wife: Alcohol, Codependence, and the Politics of Nurturance in Postwar Japan
University of California Press, 2005

Social drinking is an accepted aspect of working life in Japan, and women are left to manage their drunken husbands when the men return home, restoring them to sobriety for the next day of work. In attempting to cope with their husbands' alcoholism, the women face a profound cultural dilemma: when does the nurturing behavior expected of a good wife and mother become part of a pattern of behavior that is actually destructive? How does the celebration of nurturance and dependency mask the exploitative aspects not just of family life but also of public life in Japan? The Too-Good Wife follows the experiences of a group of middle-class women in Tokyo who participated in a weekly support meeting for families of substance abusers at a public mental-health clinic. The central concerns of the book reach beyond the problem of alcoholism to examine the women's own processes of self-reflection and criticism and the deeper fissures and asymmetries that undergird Japanese productivity and social order.

Reviews of The Too-Good Wife

Geoffrey Hunt, American Ethnologist (pdf)

Louella Matsunaga, Journal of Japanese Studies (pdf)

Laury Oaks, Journal of Women's History (pdf)

Allison Alexy, Southeast Review of Asian Studies (pdf)

Chitralekha Basu, Times Literary Supplement (pdf)

Yūko Ogasawara, Social Science Japan Journal (pdf)

Kenji Tierney, Anthropological Quarterly (pdf)

Megawati Wijaya, Asian Journal of Social Science (pdf)

Karen Nakamura, Medical Anthropology Quarterly (pdf)